The sexiest blogs of 2012 – Always worth a read list
31 Dec
The sexiest blogs of 2012
This is it guys and gals…
I deliver unto you the official sexy blog list of 2012.
AKA – Inferno’s always worth a read list.
Sexuality, polyamory, swinging, stories, sexy humor, erotica and life in general.
These are the blogs that have consistently kept putting out posts worth reading.
This year 40 blogs have made the list.
Obviously they are not in order of best to worst as it is impossible to number such blogs of various subjects. These are all great blogs in one way or another and offer up some sexy mind food.
Enjoy!
AbSINthePassion – The blog of Mr. and Mrs. AbsinthePassion. Well written, insightful, fun, sexy, sometimes serious and definitely worth a read.
A tale of Bi and Bi – A mostly sex blog from a geeky, kinky, and open minded couple who are both bisexual.
At Longing’s End – The blog of Mina and Sylvanus. Mina is a 30 something year old gal who describes herself as short, curvaceous and spunky. Sylvanus is the male half and husband of Mina. He claims to be vintage 1977. They have a nontraditional and nonmonogamous marriage. They also have a small collection of recipes posted. Be sure to check it out.
Being Bella – The blog of a 30-something mom, wife and lover, trying out the open marriage/swinging thing with her husband of 10+ years.
Being Black Silk – This blog is predominantly a sex toy review blog. I usually don’t find much sexiness in a review and if a site is more than 50% reviews it is not very interesting to me. This blogger however makes her reviews sexy in themselves with her very original, thought out, and nicely composed sex toy photos. Besides the reviews you will also find other fun pictures, drawings, fiction, and non fiction.
Confessions of a Swinger’s Wife – Journal styled blog mostly concerning swinging and related subjects. Lots of thoughts on life and sex in general are shared here on this blog.
Curvaceous Dee – The blog of a pansexual, polyamorous, fat, kinky, New Zealander by the name of Dee. Great writing and fun attitudes abound.
Frisky in the 916 – The very random blog of Jack and Jill. Stories, fantasies, pictures, and more. Sometimes funny, sometimes very personal, mostly just fun.
Hotwifing Exposed – Fantasy and the real deal too. The blog of a married couple in the UK.
(It Girl. Rag Doll) – A well written and thought provoking blog dealing primarily with sexuality and erotica.
It’s Just A Hobby – The blogs tagline is “Stuff about sex, politics and the law.” Thoughtful and questioning with a sprinkle of kink on top is how I would describe it. Not being USA based (as I am) the politics and laws are not always familiar to me, but the topics are universal.
Learning to… – A journal styled blog of a gal/couple that pretty much touch on most aspects of life. This blog once was called “Learning to swing,” but then life turned them vanilla with sprinkles.
My Dissolute Life – Husband, Father, Slut. Blogger. (that is the tagline on the site) You will find a lot of varied subject matter on this journal styled blog.
My Whole Sex Life – This blog covers a ton of subjects in regards to sex and sexuality. The part I enjoy most however is what you will find when you click the tab that says Evoë’s Blog.
Pieces of Jade – A fun and kinky girl shares her adventures in words and photos on this blog. I have followed Jade for a long time and the only reason this is the first time listing her blog on my sexiest blog list is because I had previously listed her no longer updated (A Poly Life) in 2011 and 2010.
Rebels Notes – This blog from Marie Rebel is a journal style blog that covers many aspects of her life and fantasies with a lot on her D/S lifestyle. She also hosts Wicked Wednesdays, which is a sexy blog meme I have sporadically participated with this last year.
Sex with Rose – A self described amazon (as in tall) by the name of Rose blogs about her sex life, and sex in general.
Swinging Gemma – The adventures of Gemma and Jake, both real ones and fantasies. This is a fun and varied blog to read.
Synergistic Energy Exchange – Journal styled blog with advice and food for thought thrown in. The blogger covers a lot, but her primary focus is sacred sexuality and relationships.
The secret life of a naughty kitty – A girl “kitty” shares her sexual thoughts and adventures in a fun way on this journal styled blog.
The Sexual Life Of A Wife – I ran into this blog at the end of 2011 and thought it interesting. A year later I still do.
Week Bi Week – A couple who are poly, both bi, kinky, kinda (or sometimes) swingers… What more do you need in a blog writing team?
2 years running!
The following blogs have made the always worth a read list two years in a row.
Anal Amy – If you like a good sexy story then you just may love this blog. (2 years listed)
A Slut’s Memoir – The blog of a submissive masochist slut from my home state. If I kept a list of the “naughtiest” bloggers A Sluts Memoir would be up in the top ranks. Lots of detailed experiences and thoughts on this blog. (2 years listed)
Crevice Canyon – Not a lot of posts on this blog, but when it is updated the posts are always entertaining and fun. I am a quality over quantity type guy so Crevice Canyon makes the list. The blogger describes herself as a sex positive, smut brained, curvy, queer, filthy tomboy femme who loves to frolic on the pervy side of life. (2 years listed)
Evil Slutopia – Last year I described Evil Slutopia as heavily opinionated and in your face on a multitude of topics, and mentioned that find the extremely liberal one moment then conservative the next viewpoints very entertaining. That all still stands. That makes for a great blog. (2 years listed)
KissinBlueKaren – A general sex blog of a high caliber with the added bonus of some great swinging adventure stories. You will find a little bit of everything here from product reviews to advice. (2 years listed)
Love Hate Sex Cake – Musings on a libidinous life. Here you will find the beautifully sensuous, tastefully sexy, and often dreamy images and words of Cheeky Minx. (2 years listed)
MissyStarrk – A personal sex blog done mostly in a journal style. A lot of ground gets covered here, ranging from personal thoughts and feelings to adventures and sexcapades. (2 years listed)
Molly’s Daily Kiss – A blog from a submissive in the UK that covers a lot of different ground. I actually enjoyed this blog so much that it inspired me to sporadically participate in a meme she hosts called Sinful Sunday throughout this last year. (2 years listed)
Rebecca Ammon – Conversations about Sex, Love, and Relationships. A general topic sex blog with a slant towards the swingers lifestyle. Lots of different subjects are covered here in a usually light and playful manner. (2 years listed)
Sexual adventures of a married woman – A very NSFW journal styled blog that covers the writer’s sex life, fantasies, fetishes and kinks. Photos are often included. (2 years listed)
The Big Ugly – 10 second timer self-portraits from Lauralyn. You will be impressed. (2 years listed)
3 years running!
These next blogs have made my sexiest blogs of the year list 3 times in a row.
Dick n Jane – Though post frequency dropped a bit this year for this blog, Dick n Jane is still one of the best all around personal style sex themed blogs online. Dick n Jane deliver with advice to add spice, sex education, personal thoughts, shared experiences, and random posts that just set you to thinking. (3 years listed)
Having my cake & eating it too – The sensual blog of Joanna Cake. This blog covers as she puts it “all the elements of a being a woman.” Thought provoking, sometimes sad, often sexy, occasionally eye opening, and always worth a read. (3 years listed)
Hubmans’s Hangout – This blog is sexy because of the writers attitude. Though you can find some sexual content (actually a lot in the archives) it is more of an anything and everything journal type blog. The writer also happens to be very into photography and I often just pop in to see what his latest photos posted may be. (3 years listed)
Jenny Swallows – Sexy writings, juicy thoughts, and more fill this blog with a nice taste of humor thrown in. Written well and always fun. (3 years listed)
Love and Lust – Sex + art + porn + gibberish (taken from site) is a fitting description for what you may find on this blog. As a side not I will also mention that I have taken to following this bloggers tumblr too. It is primarily filled with pictures of pretty girls and sexy things shot in a semi romanticized or artistic manner. (3 years listed)
New York Swingers A couple involved with the New York swingers scene write about their adventures and thoughts on the subject. Their personal accounts and answers to their “ask me anything” offer for readers have added up over the life of this blog resulting in a virtual treasure trove of information. (3 years listed)
Thoughts from a mystic Satyr – A journal style blog filled with randomness, but focusing on the more sexual and erotic side of life. A lot ow well written fiction this year. (3 years listed)
That’s all folks!
~ If your blog is on this list you can feel free to place the funky little award icon on your site or if you are not into such things then don’t.
(took all of ten minutes to make)
The same goes for linking back to this page or my site in general.
(Cool if you do and cool if you don’t)
Your blog speaks for itself and that’s why I listed it here.
If you have or know of a sexy blog and think it should be on this list please DON’T submit it to me.
I find the blogs I read through:
Comments on my own blogs
My stats pages by seeing who is linking to me
Comments left on posts I like on other blogs
Link lists on other blogs
Social networks I participate in
If I find a great blog I start reading it. If posts stay regular and the subjects stay interesting I keep going back. It’s that simple.
I hope you all have found some new and interesting blog reads.
Tags: Blogs, Sexy Blogs

















As an added little note… I don’t notify the people on this list. If you happen to know any of these fab bloggers or are a regular commenter on their blogs it would be great if you shared the news.
If you wish to know more about my list you can read a bit here…
http://www.redregioninferno.com/taketwo/?p=180
Have a happy New Year!
Oh wow, thank you, will take your comment on board re not always knowing background to stories, it is true, esp me, i tend to be lazy about links.
Happy New Year!
Love the subjects your blog covers and how they are presented.
I can’t say I wouldn’t love the addition of more reference type links, but I’m guessing that many people do as I do when they are interested in knowing more… we Google it!
Thank you for creating such a great blog for us all to read.
Oh wow…. 2 years in a row! I am doing a little happy dance. This is quite a list and I am honoured to find myself in such fabulous company.
Thank you and Happy New Year
Mollyxxx
Can’t imagine any sort of sexy blogs list that wouldn’t include yours Molly.
Originality, personality, insights into your lifestyle, visuals…
Anyone with an interest in the subject matter who enjoys blogs just has to enjoy yours.
Thank you. What an amazing compliment. I shall display my badge with pride!
Mollyxxx
Thank you so much!!
It means a lot to make your list not just once but twice!
I will have to go add my new shiny button on my blog xxx
Your very welcome. I hope 2013 brings you much joy and many great adventures.
Whenever I have a harsh year I try and head into the next one thinking “and now for a great year.”
I’ll be looking forward to reading all about your great 2013.
Thanks for the mention! And I’ll make sure to explore the others on the list I don’t know yet!
x Rose
Your welcome, and I hope you do. I’m positive you’d find some great stuff.
I have varied tastes. There is something for most everyone.
Keep up the great blog!
@RedRegion Thank you again, & the ‘naughtiest’ part made me grin. I am sure there will be spanking involved somehow. *grins even more* ;)
There is no doubt about the naughty in your case.
I’m very much in favor of naughtiness.
I am floored to be on this list among such great blogs!!! This blog is one of my favorites as well. There are a few on your list I need to check out. Thanks so much for putting this together.
Thank you Karen.
I actually keep the list all year long and constantly update it.
When I publish it is mostly just a matter of adding the descriptions ,deciding how many blogs to include, and putting them in a different order.
I consider the first 75 on my personal list my faves.
Your blog has been in the “faves” since I discovered you.
Thank you so much for mentioning my blog between all those other fabulous blogs, many of which I am a frequent reader too! I feel very privileged to be in your top 40! Thanks!
I stumbled across a tweet by Molly, that is how I was alerted about the post. I will inform some of the people on the list :)
Thanks again!
Rebel xox
You are very welcome, and I thank you for creating a blog worth reading.
A couple of your posts this year actually stuck in my head so strongly I still remember them months later.
What a great resource! I’m definitely saving this page to refer to when I need to find some good reading. :) Thanks for all the suggestions!
So glad you like it. I’m sure you will find some great and inspiring reads Sabrina.
I am deeply honoured, sir. As I’ve detailed time repeated, your list last year led me to authors whose brevity and honesty inspired me to join the community. Without Karen, without you, without Josh and BB, and without Mr. No Name I would not have a site up and running today. Thank you. Thank you all.
Stay SINful
Mr. AP
Knowing my yearly list inspired and helped you in creating your blog makes me very happy indeed.
Having you include me along with the very fine people you mentioned also is an honor.
I look forward to reading your posts throughout the new year.
Wow, 3 years in a row, I’m honored!
Now thanks to you there’s a bunch of blogs I’ve never heard of before that I need to check out now.
Happy New Year!
Very few bloggers are as good at keeping it real as you are.
I find your blog a fine example of what personal blogging can be.
I also have very much enjoyed your photography.
Wow! I am surprised and delighted to have made this list. Thank you for the recognition. It appears we have many blogs in common among our reading list, and yet I’m afraid I can’t remember ever visiting yours before today. Definitely something I must remedy immediately!
Your very welcome. I hope you gain some new readers.
As for my own blog… just because I enjoy yours doesn’t mean you’ll enjoy mine.
I am very sure you’ll find at least one great new blog to enjoy though.
I am so excited to be included in the list!!! One of the things that makes me happy is knowing that people get pleasure out of reading my stuff.
Count me as one who gets pleasure from reading your blog.
:)
This a truly fabulous way to start the year! Thank you so much for the honour yet again and for placing me with such sexy and talented company.
Happy New Year, Inferno…
~Minx x
been a big fan of your beautiful images and words since long before I ever thought of making a yearly list of sexiest blogs.
Hey there,
We know a few of the folks on your list. You might want to check out our blog too! mysexlifewithlola
See you there!
Lo & HH
But, alas, it is all locked up behind a password field.
WOW! Thank You SO much for including me and my blog on such a wonderfully diverse and compelling list of sexy sites!!! This is by far the best gift that I’ve received over the entire holiday season :D All the best to you in 2013!
Your very welcome. My list is al about sharing blogs I think people could really enjoy. Your photos are fabulous.
Just send us an e-mail and we’ll pass along the key
I may do so.
Thanks for the awesome list of suggestions. I read several of these on a regular basis…but there are quite a few that are new to me here! Wonderful!
I’m glad you like it and hope you find a couple new ones you like enough to follow.
just read your club sapphire review and must say it was extremely detailed.
we have had many friends try and get us to go there.
I just can’t go for the idea of people charging so much for what seems like just a hotel party to me.
Maybe someday though.
Thank you for the list, it’s how I find other bloggers!
Happy you find it useful. Hope you can find some new faves.
Thanks again…and the feeling is mutual…I very much enjoy reading you too :)…happy new year!
May you also have a great new year.