Been a while since I Posted.
Mostly it is because I have been super busy, but also it is because I just haven’t had much to jabber jaw about.
This last weekend though…
A couple who are friends with my wife and I, and also in the lifestyle (swingers) talked us into going to a club.
We used to be members of the club, but have not been in a couple years because the management changed hands (for the worse) and also we have not really been playing (swinging) much. At all really. We just kinda dropped out because of life’s weird paths.
The club (New Horizons) is one of the nicest clubs in the USA.
It is however a place that now has low attendance and charges big bucks to make up for it.
Dues are insane considering that usually there are only like 20 or so couples unless it is a special party.
Party prices are insane too considering the low attendance.
This last weekend though was supposed to be different.
Someone from outside the club was throwing the party.
We were told high attendance, fun atmosphere, glow party, and booze included.
Back dues would be caught up for a small fee of just $20 in an attempt to get old members back to the club.
I decided to look the party up on Lifestyle Lounge because they have all the sweet party info.
It looked good and many people had done the LL RSVP thing.
So… we went.
Trouble from the start.
At the door it seemed it was $20 per person to catch up back dues and then $100 for the next 6 months of dues plus party fee of $85 or $95 (can’t recall) so EXPENSIVE.
Booze was supplied, there were about 200 people in attendance, and music wasn’t horrible. (it usually is)
The people throwing the party had installed a cage for people to dance in.
I think they had great ideas as to how the party should go so it would be fun, but they had road blocks.
The normal management.
The music was “to loud” they said.
The lights “bothered people” they said.
Yup… I heard more too.
I give props to Norbert. He did a lot for swinging and has had the club since the 70’s. He and his wife could definitely be said to have helped shape the swinging lifestyle in not just the US, but the whole world.
That said… There comes a time to hang up your hat.
Times change, people change, venues must change with those times.
The club is out of date as to how it runs.
It is boring.
Swinging should not be boring. It is supposed to be about fun.
The attendance has dropped so far that they keep raising prices to try and stay afloat.
Meanwhile other clubs thrive.
Our evening was pleasant (after the door situation) with ok food, nice bartenders, and some conversation with our friends and a couple I had sat down to dinner with.
The dancing was not to fabulous , but then again… “can’t have the music to loud.”
The glow sticks glowed, but the glow paint (provided) didn’t much because they couldn’t tweak the lighting to much I guess. Oh well.
Overall, the vibe was not conducive to hooking up.
We ourselves (wife and I) hadn’t planned on hooking with anyone anyways, but would have been cool to at least get a bit of a desire too.
We found out that nobody hardly did.
When we decided it was time to have sex with each other we went upstairs to the play areas.
We played with each other in an upper bunk area that allowed a view of many other play spots.
The big thing we noticed was that everyone else was doing the same thing.
Almost every couple had decided to just stick with themselves rather than play with others.
That is cool and all, but if everyone is doing it then I think that says something about the vibe of the place.
People don’t join swingers clubs just to fuck each other usually. Sure, some do. They like the eye candy and atmosphere, but not the majority.
We used to (years ago) highly recommend the club.
It was often busy and the people always seemed nice.
Bitchy door people who act put out, retirement home atmosphere, and higher prices each and every year make it not a place I recommend, but a place I feel sad for.
Such a waste.
One of the coolest set ups in the country for the lifestyle, and it is almost dead just because of bad management. So sad.
I hope they get the picture and update before it is gone for good.