This week’s TMI Tuesday is about sex and romance. Who doesn’t enjoy a little romance or the art of seduction before engaging in sex? Often times the prelude is better than the actual ‘event’.
1. You are sitting alone in a restaurant because your lunch date is late. Do you:
a) Throw something and then make out with the waiter.
b) Check to make sure he or she didn’t get into an accident, then wait patiently for two hours and use the time to compose a love song or poem.
c) Send a nasty text followed up by a voice mail telling him/her that “romance is dead and so are you!”
d) Wait for 20 minutes, and then text-message a pal to join you for lunch.
A, B & D all at once.
A is because I have schedules to keep. Don’t want to waste the little bit of pleasure time I have.
B is because I care. No 2 hours, but I would worry without texting and I just may right a poem as I waited.
D is because of that time and scheduling thing again. If I wanted company I am going to have it and obviously scenario D is a back up plan to A in case the waiter (waitress) in my case isn’t hot or to busy to be connived into taking a break.
2. What’s more important, a romantic relationship or your career?
Once long ago it was career.
What is funny about that is my relationships seemed easier and more stable when I selfishly played with money and fame than they are now that I pay attention to them.
3. You love to role play in the bedroom, which one of these is more likely to be your kink?
a. Doctor and the naughty nurse
b. You’re the gardener, I’m the hoe
c. Persnickety principal and the wayward pupil that needs a spanking
d. Me Tarzan, you Jane
e. Scattered-brain boss and the seductive secretary
I do role play and costume play pretty often.
Of the things listed above none appeal to me much though.
Variation of ‘A’ would be nurse and patient. I can kinda did that if the girl is extremely good at role play.
Variation of ‘D’ if done outside in a field or the woods would be Savage man captures wayward traveler. That could be good. I guess that isn’t even a variation, but the Tarzan costume could be used.
4. When you want sex, who tends to make the first move?
a. Me! I like to go for what I want.
b. It varies. Sometimes my partner/significant other/date or sometimes me.
c. Oh definitely the other person. Even if I want it, I’m not about to admit such a thing.
d. I drop subtle hints hoping he/she will pick up on it.
It used to be me back in my 20’s. It still is pretty often when it is withing my ongoing relationships, but outside of that it is never me.
I may flirt a tad, but I never ask for first dates, never go for the first grope or kiss, and never initiate sex for the first time.
I have not initiated first sex in over 15 years even once that I can think of except in swinging situations with new and nervous girls.
I need the girl to go for it to make me feel desired and excited.
5. When it comes to lovemaking, select the answer that best describes you/your attitudes
a. vanilla – meets society’s middle of the road standards
d. trisexual – I will try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure. –Mae West
D – I’m down with Mae West.
6. You want to seduce that sexy someone, what is the sweet-nothing that you’ll whisper in his/her ear?
If I want to seduce her then there is obviously something wonderful about her that I could make known through a whisper. I don’t have any an come on lines or other standard things that I say.
It is all about flow.
Bonus: What’s your idea of a romantic getaway?
Private, natural setting, no electronics, wine, easy foods, maybe a few books if its a few days.
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